loss

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    The Fires (Summer 2023)

    Having never lost everything in a fire,I’d like to think I’d see it philosophically,take the distant view: things are replaceable; ortranscendent view: earthly things are transitory. I’d like to think a house is a house,the bedroom (with Deb’s own colour scheme and feng shui,and my son’s painting over the nightstand),simply a comfortable place to sleep….

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    Living with loss

    The word “transformational” is often used to describe the moment or experience that forever impacts every part of you. My moment came on the warm evening of June 30, 1997, when I stood with Ralph outside my parents’ home, seeing the silhouette of my father and younger sister Rhoda framed in the front porch light…

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    Spelling recovery

    “Trauma is never the event, it’s how your body responds to an event,” says Texas-based writer and artist Jenai Auman. “Your body, your brain, your heart – you flood with stress hormones and your body is actually under duress.” Auman is completing her certification as a trauma recovery coach and writing a book on spiritual…

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    February blessing

    Now it’s February. We can’t forget it’s the month to celebrate Black History (I highly recommend I. Wilkeson’s book The Warmth of Other Suns), and there are some who like to acknowledge St. Valentine on February 14. Yet, I must admit, I’m finding it hard to write about non-COVID-19 things. After almost one year, this…