Six Ways to Be Loving in a Pandemic

1. Don’t hoard

Imagine standing in the store looking at two (or 20) packages of toilet paper, and your neighbour is right beside you. Are you really going to take them all? If you have a need, so do others. How would you feel if an elderly neighbour, sick person or single mom with three kids had to go without because you were a hoarder? Hoarding can be a symptom of faithlessness – the fear that God won’t provide for your needs.

2. Tend to the sick and lonely

Some people are feeling even more isolated than normal. Some aren’t connected online. Some have trouble getting supplies on a good day. Some are unwell for a variety of reasons, or are feeling scared. Remember and tend to the sick and lonely while observing best practices for health.

3. Don’t spread misinformation

One of the differences between coronavirus in 2020 and, for example, the SARS epidemic in 2003, is that information (and misinformation) travels much more quickly than it used to. Many people get their “information” from social media sources regardless of who provided the content. It’s not loving to incite panic. Try to get information from credible people. Public health officials try to act in the public’s best interest. Informed decisions are good decisions.

4. Take your own health seriously

It’s not helpful to pretend you’re “fine” if you’re not. If you think you’re sick, seek help and try not to expose others. Wash your hands and observe recommended best practices. Wellness also has to do with mental health. Many people are experiencing high levels of anxiety and worry. Go to the Lord God Almighty in prayer, meditate on God’s promises in Scripture, and speak to a wise and trusted friend about what you’re feeling. If you need a little more assistance, many therapists are currently offering online or phone sessions.  

5. Support small business

Small businesses in our communities are struggling. Where possible, why not try to support them? Our neighbours’ livelihood is impacted in a positive way when we think of them.

6. Think and serve from a place of faith

For followers of Jesus, God is always sovereign; he can bring good out of bad, and hope always wins in the end, even if we have challenges to overcome in this short life. “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world,” Jesus promises (John 16:33). 

Don’t forget that love is a decision, not a feeling. And there are many other ways to be loving, of course. This list is to simply get you thinking. We are a people of prayer and service. We pray that people get better, that medical professionals and government leaders act with wisdom, and that those of us who are healthy help and serve others — this includes attending not only to physical needs where appropriate, but spiritual needs too. This persists in a pandemic. As time goes on, those needs will shift. Pay attention and act accordingly.